14 December, 2008

Emotionally Unavailable Men & Unrequited Love

I've been lucky enough to encounter several of these rare types. It was to learn a lesson and OH I got the message, loud and clear. I'm writing the second part of my Philosophy Book Series and here is an idea of what it contains:

I'm about to share with you why we attract these types of men and what to do about it.

Emotionally Unavailable Men are not actually emotionally unavailable, they are emotionally handicapped. They have emotions, just not the ones you're looking for. They may be passionate - about sports, cars, music, politics - just not about you. This is why ...

These men most likely have self-esteem issues. These issues are disguised by arrogance, bravado, shyness or plain ole apathy. They cannot give you what they don't have.

Imagine a bucket. Now, imagine pouring water into this bucket. Bucket is the heart, water is love. No matter how much water you pour into this bucket, in a short amount of time it is empty. You turn the bucket over and realize there is a hole in it. The hole is large or small. The size of the hole is determined by how much this person's self-esteem has been bruised over the years. Every time someone didn't love them, the hole got bigger. Every time someone rejected them and so on. If he is always in an empty state - meaning with an empty bucket - he has no love to give you. You can keep filling the bucket, but you will end up empty too.

Women have holes in their hearts too. They just give away the love they have before it seeps out, hoping to get it back in return. Men keep you around because you are so willing to empty yourself out for them. You keep giving, so they keep taking - what's the problem? The problem is your expectations of getting blood from a turnip. Then when you start demanding more commitment, more affection, more love - they usually withdraw, dump you or get angry. They don't understand why YOU don't understand that they are handicapped.

The point is, when you ask a man to love you - he has to have it to give. Men have many buckets - one for their friends, family, girlfriends, ex-girlfriends, children, pets. He may treat his family like gold and you like shit. If this person has combined two or more buckets, you could be paying for things his father did, or his best friend etc.

Get to know your guy, his past, his relationships, his history. Figure out if his bucket has a big hole in it before you go pouring your soul in there. Imagine him to be a container of liquid - and imagine how full or empty it is. If he is not willing to patch up this hole, move on. You can't do it for him - trust me. Until he loves himself - he cannot love you. Until you love yourself enough to not give your soul to just anyone - and save your love for yourself - you will not attract someone of equal wholeness.

Two people with broken buckets are called half-souls. These types go out looking for someone to make them complete. A whole soul is someone who doesn't have a broken bucket. They don't need someone to make them feel loved, they love themselves. Two half people do not make a whole. One person will always drain the other, making their happiness 50% to 0%. A half soul and a whole soul - will be happy 50% to 75%. Two whole people are happy 100% of the time. Marriage does not create happiness. You need to be happy before you get married. Relationships don't make you happy, you need to be happy independent of the other person.

Seek to become a whole person and the love you give away will be replenished on its own, because you are a flowing fountain. You will be blessed to find another whole person because your vibrational energy would have shifted. {{Love}}


12 December, 2008

Summer Solstice and 2012

At 11:05pm on Sunday December 21 [Australian Eastern daylight time] the Sun will reach its maximum declination south as it moves into the sign of Capricorn. This marks the Summer Solstice in the southern hemisphere and the Winter Solstice in the northern hemisphere.

December 21 also marks the time each year when the Solstice Sun aligns with dark band of sky near the centre of our galaxy. The peak of this cycle is December 21 2012. This event takes place once every 25,800 years [approx] and is a 36 year process. The end of the Mayan Long Count seemed to be dated to coincide with this event, suggesting that the ancient Mayans had a very advanced knowledge of astronomy and mathematics. To the Mayans this area of the sky marked the original point of creation and was said to be the pathway of the Gods who dwelled in the Underworld, a place they called Xibalba. This black band of sky near the Galactic Centre has been revered by many cultures and is said to symbolize the home of the Gods and the wisdom of the cosmos, similar to the Buddhist concept of the emptiness from which all life in the Universe is birthed.

The alignment of the Sun with this point has been taking place each December Solstice since 1994 and will continue to do so until 2030. This phenomenon occurs due to the 26,000 year cycle known as the Precession of the Equinoxes. The Sun measures ½ a degree width on the ecliptic [360 apparent path of the Sun through the zodiac] and moves backwards against this circle 1Ò every 72years. Hence it will take 36 years to move across this point.

So the point behind the December Solstice is now aligned with the dark band at the centre of the Milky Way and has been every December since 1994. Potentially it symbolizes humanity gaining greater access to the wisdom of the cosmos symbolized by the dark band [home of the Gods, source of creation] at the centre of the Milky Way. Accessing this energy will require humanity to experience a collective and personal symbolic death and rebirth on many levels - spiritually, psychically, energetically and intellectually with advances science, technology, healing, communications all likely.

But the point I want to make is that it is HAPPENING NOW. It is not an isolated event that occurs in 2012. This is the key astrological indicator [but by no means the only one] of what is often referred to as the Shift, the Awakening or Ascension process.

[Found at this website]

09 December, 2008

Hermit Videos - Spirituality

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17 November, 2008

Are you an Earth Angel?

Found at: Spiritual Calling From Doreen Virtue’s book ‘Earth Angels’

Please write True or False next to each statement below. Go with the first answer that comes to your mind or heart:

  1. I tend to easily put on extra weight, or I’m currently overwight.
  2. My past or current love partners are addicts or alcoholics.
  3. I rarely break a rule.
  4. I have a hard time saying no.
  5. I highlight, colour, or bleach my hair.
  6. I would prefer to help someone one-no-one, rather than in a group setting.
  7. Truth be told, I like animals or plants much better than i like people.
  8. I have celtic origions,or i look celtic (that is, i have reddish tint in my hair, freckles, or ruddy complexion).
  9. I constantly play practical jokes.
  10. I’m quite the mischief maker, and seem to have a persistent twinkel in my eyes.
  11. I’m fiercely independent and don’t like following the rules or authority.
  12. My finaces seem to be eiher feast or famine.
  13. I don’t like being the center of attention, and I’m usuall a wallflower at social functions.
  14. I’ve always believed in,or been interested in, ETs or UFOs
  15. I’m compulsively thoughtful toward people, whether they express appreciation or not.
  16. I conduct Reiki or other forms of energy or hands-on healing.
  17. My life’s mission is more important than getting married and having children.
  18. I really would lke to go home now, because I know that Earth isn’t my home.
  19. I had a life-changing experance, such as a serious accident or near death experience.
  20. In the past, I was so miserable that I wanted to die and seriously considered (or attempted) suicide.
  21. I have changed my first name, or i am strongly doing so.
  22. My friends and family remark, “You’re so different now. Theres something about you thats not the same.”
  23. I have made, or am making, drastic changes to many areas of m life simultaneously (such as moving changing job and divorcing) all at once.
  24. I have deep spiritual knowledge that didn’t come from any books or teachers.
  25. Even though I know I’m different from other people, I still enjoy the comany of others and get along pretty well with most people.
  26. I know that I have magical abilities, which are untapped right now.
  27. I have strong past life memories or interests concerning Arthurian or Atlantean times.
  28. I believe that I was burned at the stake, or killed in some other way, during the witch hunts or Inquisition.
  29. I have studied Tarot cards or atology.
  30. I’m very drawn toward Earth-based spirituality, such as shmanism or full-moon ceremonies.


The number of true answers that you noted may reveal which realm you’re from. Count the number of true aanswers for each successive group-ing of six questions, beinning with the first six.

  • For example, if you answered four or more true’s to questions 1 though 6, then you’re probably an Incarnated Angel. ( That is, the more questions nswered true to, the more likely you are to fit into this category.)
  • If you answered four or mores true’s to questions 7 through 12, then you are probably an incarnated Elemental.
  • If you responded true four or more timesto questions 13 through 18, then you’re most likely a Starperson.
  • If you had four more true answeres to questions 19 through 24, then you’re probably a Walk-In.
  • I you answered true four or more times to questions 25 through 30, then you’re most likely a Wise One.

If your answeres don’t reflect one particular category over another, then you may be an Evolving Earth Angel or a Dabbler. This is a being who is moving from one realm to another, such as from the Elemental realm into Starperson realm. Info on these still to come.

NOTE: To find out more about what your answers mean, please click on the link found at the top of this post. You will see a left hand column in which you will see elemental, earth, angel, wise one, etc. Click these for more insight to the quiz.

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